3 WAYS A LADY CAN SECURE HER RELATIONSHIP

At this point, you need to ask yourself if your man is worth keeping. If he is, these few points will work out well for you.

1. Develop what drew him to you. As long as your are proud of him, you have competing ladies, so what made you win the competition? There must be something unique about you that attracted him. In most cases, this tend to be beauty, intelligence, spirituality and/or character. So think about it, how do you keep him? Sex? No that won't work, even if you feed him with sex every day, diminishing returns will set in and he will find another source and probably a better one.
Discover the connection between both of you: in fact, it could be your spiritual life that he is interested in; whatever it is, the more you develop it the more you stabilise/stimulate his affection for you. Like i said, it could be your unique taste of meals, which means you are good in cooking; so develop your cooking skills & come up with varieties everyday. If he is attached to you because of your intelligence, then stay hungry for knowledge.  The secret is that: make your man see that as he is moving upward, you are progressing with him and he would lose a lot if he leaves you behind.
Develop yourself by the day.

2. Don't be possessive.  Except if your man is a dummy, he won't allow you to be a CCTV camera. If you suspect unfaithfulness, don't shoot vulgar arrows at the other lady; that would give her strength and your man would try to defend her by proving you wrong. He could even demand some respect for her by shutting you up and staying away from you.
Truly It could be difficult to stay sane when he acts suspiciously but the only way to make him wake up is to let him know that he is in charge of his life and you are the only real thing he has when others fail.
So Give him his life and don't monitor him.

3. Meet his emotional needs. Men have emotional needs but under the broadness of chest and display of masculine traits, we tend to pretend as if they don't exist so that we won't be taken for granted. A wise woman takes time to identify the emotional needs of her man and give him strength accordingly. In fact, that was why God made a woman an helper in the first place.
When you meet the emotional and unspoken needs of your man, his understanding is that you know lot about him and instead of using it against him, you help him.So he begins to see you as a Queen. Even if issues occur and he attempts to leave you, he would think thrice. - "Am i ready to leave my secrets with her?" - "can i afford to lose her?" - "will i find a better person?"
The secret is that he answers "NO" to all; why?  
You have the solutions to his emotional needs and he won't let the water of the bowl when he is not sure of the rain.

These points are good workouts for any lady who wants to keep her man. So there are still good men out there and if you are lucky to have one already, you should truly be his real source of comfort and do your best to keep him in need of you.

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Tunde Vaughan: for MACConcepts